Diana Cage

A fun little beginner's guide, surprisingly light and humor-filled, but with some genuine tips: i.e. what to do on that first date. The biggest problem with the book is that it assumes we're all pretty good-looking and pretty kinky, with the author going so far as to admit she's intentionally overlooking vanilla sex! Still, the definitions of "queerspeak," handkerchief color code, gender vs sex, what drinks to order and how to avoid sabotaging your date can be helpful. Just don't expect this to be the end-all of preparatory reading; it's more of a basic, if pleasant, primer.… (més)