Ellen Kreidman

Here are a few notes from the first time that I read it.

She highly recommends the video Don Juan De Marco, even though it was not a success in the marketplace. My wife didn’t like the movie at all and I wasn’t impressed with it either.

95% of the time your mate is looking for a shoulder to lean on; not answers.

If you don't take time for conversation with your mate, you will have an angry fault finding mate.

Go for a walk with your mate. There was a couple that were becoming estranged. They began walking together, and became really thrilled with the spouse that they had.

Spend 30 minutes a day talking with her - devoted exclusively to her.

A man is productive when he is happy. A woman is happy when she is productive.

There is nothing a woman won’t do for a man who makes her feel good about herself.

One of the Homework assignments: Concentrate on her good attributes only. For one week if there is anything you want to be critical about, write it down instead.

2: Notice some of the little things that she does and tell her that you appreciate them.

3: Let her know what you like about her personality.

Another assignment (near the end of the book): Write a 10 statement biography. If a person was to really understand you, what 10 things would they need to know?

One more thing which was from the beginning of the book: Manipulation does not work. Actions much be from sincere love.… (més)