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Bobbehead Dad: 25 Life Lessons I Forgot I Knew

de Jim Higley

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This is an inspirational account of a typical dad's extraordinary journey through several forgotten life lessons -- and the discovery of one life-changing gift. Jim Higley was a forty-year-old bobblehead. Just like those collectible figurines -- with an oversized head on a bouncy spring -- he had put on a smiling face and bobble through his hectic, overflowing days. Higley's bobbling comes to a screeching halt with the diagnosis of cancer and a summer of healing. But this is not only a cancer story. This book gives the reader a front row seat in the author's discovery of illuminating parallels between the events of his childhood and adulthood, as he delves into his family history with rich, vivid detail. Through humorous and poignant memories, "Bobblehead Dad" unwraps lessons from the past -- revealing meaning in simple moments and the people who fill them -- including the surprise discovery of Higley's most important lesson, quietly waiting for over thirty years. Written in an informal but eloquent voice, the book keeps readers laughing, crying and -- most importantly -- thinking about their own life journey. Higley's distinctive storytelling rhythm, combined with a knack for handling heavy topics with an embraceable voice, quickly draws readers into his experiences -- while launching them on their own journey of self-discovery and reflection.… (més)
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I'm clearing about 150 read books off my Kindle, so I'm not writing reviews for most of them. I'm just marking them as "read," but this is such a great book, I wanted to drop a short note. Like any good memoir, Bobblehead Dad will make you laugh, make you cry (really - get a tissue) and remind you of what's really important in life. ( )
  amandabeaty | Jan 4, 2024 |
Bobblehead Dad by Jim Higley is a nonlinear memoir told in the form of 25 lesson the author has learned during his life. In his forties, the author was diagnosed with prostate cancer and had to take stock of his life, the legacy he was given by his family, and the legacy he would leave to his children. He described himself as a bobblehead in the introduction, a plastic figure who always had a constant smile no matter what influences or stimuli were thrown at him and simply bobbled throughout his day, but that it was still a plastic smile and he wasn't really living. Hence the title of the book.

The lessons are short and seem to be pretty much common sense, although the author acknowledges this near the end of the book. He explains that while most people know these lessons and they may seem easy, they also seem to be difficult to actually put into practice. It would have been better if the author had acknowledged this near the beginning of the book rather than at the end, because it leads to a bit of frustration and forehead slapping.

The author's story is told in a nonlinear style. Each chapter/lesson is divided into two parts. The first is a personal memory, usually of growing up in a house where he was the youngest of five boys. At the age of fourteen, he lost his mother rather suddenly to brain cancer. Later, he lost his father, and then his brother, both to cancer. He shares personal memories of these particular parts of his life. The second part of each chapter involves how these parts influenced his feelings and reactions during the time he was diagnosed with prostate cancer, the time leading up to his surgery, and his recovery. Each chapter concludes with the lesson that he took away these experiences.

There are some distinct problems with Bobblehead Dad, the first being the title. Higley describes what he means by being a bobblehead in the introduction. This is where the problem starts, however. Through the rest of the book, I just don't get it. It didn't make sense as to why or how being a bobblehead related to these lessons. It seems like he forgot what the original motif was shortly after starting it. So, why he chose the title and went to the trouble of describing what he meant in the introduction seemed confusing and ultimately disappointing, like getting literary blue balls.

I can tell what Higley is going for with his nonlinear storytelling in the memoir. It creates an interesting feel, and he's clearly going for the effect of pulling different pieces of his life together like a jigsaw puzzle to use as teachable moments and ultimate lesson that he has at the end of the book. The only problem is that it...just...doesn't...quite...work, at least not for this reviewer. Let me be clear that there's a certain charm to the approach. There definitely is. At the same time, though, it can be frustrating or, at worst, confusing as the reader tries to piece together this life from different non-contiguous and nonlinear parts. It's a style that I found interesting, but it also feels like it needed more time to cook.

Ultimately, Bobblehead Dad was not without it's interesting moments or style, and I can't fault Higley for trying something a little new and in a style that's not seen often. It's part memoir and part self-help book. At the same time, it's not without some major problems and at times falls flat, and while the style of the book is interesting, it felt like the style was also experimental needed more time time and editing. My heart goes out to the author and his family for the struggles they've gone through in fighting his cancer and the losses they've suffered. But this book feels like it comes up short in telling of this struggle, which makes it difficult to fully recommend.

Bobblehead Dad earns 2.5 out of 5 stars, although since we can't give half-stars on this system, it gets the benefit of the doubt and gets three stars.

Note: A free Advanced Reader's Copy of this book was sent to this reviewer through a Goodreads First Read giveaway. This did not affect this review in any way. ( )
  sheldonnylander | Apr 5, 2023 |
I was interested in reading this book, in part because of my daughter's battle with leukemia. This book was about a 44 year old man battling prostrate cancer, but the emotions brought up with a cancer diagnosis are universal.

The life lessons learned in this book are nothing we all haven't heard before. Enjoy life to its fullest, cherish every day you have, value family and friends over possessions. We all know we should be doing this, but sometimes it takes something as serious as cancer to remind us.

Each chapter in the book followed a similar format. First an episode from his childhood, then an episode from his adult life. The childhood flashbacks would loosely illustrate a lesson to be learned. At first the constant switching from past to present was distracting. It was hard to get into the narrative flow. But by the end of the book I was comfortable with the time jumps. I did wish that more time was spent on the actual cancer diagnosis and treatment. I would have enjoyed more details. But overall, this was a good book, and I always admire people who have the dedication to tell their own story to others. ( )
  readingover50 | Jun 11, 2019 |
This book has a lot of really great messages. It is, however, super dramatically written, and that always makes me a little cynical. Jim Higley uses dramatic writing techniques--like parenthetical dashes--too often, and in places where they don't really make sense grammatically.

He indents--the way writers do for emphasis--far, far too often.

For sentences that aren't actually emphatic.

Like this one.

That is my primary complaint. As far as the story goes, it's nothing earth-shattering, but it is a lovely narrative about a man coming through a terrible experience, and it included a lot of passages that made me feel how special life is. Since it's so short, I don't mind recommending it (especially since most aren't as easily annoyed as I am by silly style things). The message is beautiful, and I enjoyed reading it.

I won this copy through Goodreads First Reads.
  mirikayla | Feb 8, 2016 |
JIM HIGLEY'S "BOBBLEHEAD DAD" (REVIEW)

I am in love with Jim Higley and his family. I honestly do not think there is anyone out there that will read this story and not fall in love with the man. I fell in love with his spirit, his warmth, and his overall determination to not only defeat cancer but to keep a positive attitude, learn from the experience and live every day to the fullest. This book is one of a kind, his experience is richly woven in such a way that it keeps you reading. Anyone that reads this book and does not get something positive out of it is simply lost.

I learned from it, I know others will too. The 25 lessons in this book are ones we all should take to heart. By the way, 'Long John Silvers' restaurant holds a few memories for me too!

-Kitty Bullard / Great Minds Think Aloud Book Club ( )
  RavenswoodPublishing | Jun 24, 2011 |
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This is an inspirational account of a typical dad's extraordinary journey through several forgotten life lessons -- and the discovery of one life-changing gift. Jim Higley was a forty-year-old bobblehead. Just like those collectible figurines -- with an oversized head on a bouncy spring -- he had put on a smiling face and bobble through his hectic, overflowing days. Higley's bobbling comes to a screeching halt with the diagnosis of cancer and a summer of healing. But this is not only a cancer story. This book gives the reader a front row seat in the author's discovery of illuminating parallels between the events of his childhood and adulthood, as he delves into his family history with rich, vivid detail. Through humorous and poignant memories, "Bobblehead Dad" unwraps lessons from the past -- revealing meaning in simple moments and the people who fill them -- including the surprise discovery of Higley's most important lesson, quietly waiting for over thirty years. Written in an informal but eloquent voice, the book keeps readers laughing, crying and -- most importantly -- thinking about their own life journey. Higley's distinctive storytelling rhythm, combined with a knack for handling heavy topics with an embraceable voice, quickly draws readers into his experiences -- while launching them on their own journey of self-discovery and reflection.

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