Anyone who has ever been in a loving relationship knows that the wrong word, phrase, gesture, or look can transform a mild disagreement into World War III. But it doesn't have to end that way.   Psychologist and family therapist Paul Coleman has created the essential resource that you can rely on for clear, concise information about positive, effective, and caring communication. In How to Say It for Couples, Coleman spotlights the most common differences in communication between people and guides couples through the most challenging events of their lives, using real-life examples to illustrate the best way to speak to one another. You and your partner will quickly discover how to say just the right thing in any situation--no matter how difficult it may be.