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S'està carregant… Love Me Whole (edició 2018)de Nicky James
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Apunta't a LibraryThing per saber si aquest llibre et pot agradar. No hi ha cap discussió a Converses sobre aquesta obra. Buddy read with Maria. I was expecting a lot from this story and was let down. There were many times when I had to stop reading and remind myself that this was a romance and not the biography that I wanted. The story was well written and Oryn's illness was handled in a positive nature. I enjoyed the way that the five men related to Vaughn and each other. Vaughn was often clueless and pushed Oryn too hard and too fast in my opinion. I would have liked to get to know Vaughn better but the story was primarily Oryn's. oh boy, I have a lot of thoughts and feelings about this. I have a lot of problems with Vaughn and really don't like him as a partner for Oryn. This book could have been great, but it just misses the mark for me. This could have been a book about making connections, navigating life together, building something as partners. Instead it was super one sided. It also would have been nice if he talked to Oryn about boundaries and how to interact with his alters before he did something either he was uncomfortable with or he thought Oryn might not like. Overall this didn't really read like a Nicky James book - I normally love her stuff and find her books to be better written than this. It kills me because I can see how I would have loved for this to be written, how affirming it could have been of different kinds of romantic relationships, but instead it fell back on overused, and in my opinion dangerous tropes. NNNNNGGHHH I GIVE THIS ALL THE STARS ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ One of my first Nicky James books and I was absolutely blown away! This beautiful love story follows Vaughn as he navigates falling in love with someone with dissociative identity disorder (DID). As it’s told entirely from his POV, we experience firsthand his initial bewilderment, his fears, his unconditional acceptance, and his abundance of selfless love and devotion so powerful it has me tearing up just thinking about it 4.5 stars I can't tell you the most interesting thing about this book, I just realized, cuz spoiler. lol Vaughn was very patient. It's hard not to get whiplash when you face 6 personalities in one body, and when the switch happens frequently and sometimes without a warning that it's about to happen. It's chaotic. Sometimes this wasn't the most exciting book, they did mundane things, but just when I wanted to take a break, because I didn't much care about them exploring a museum, an alter would come forward and make it interesting. Which coming out of my mouth, sounds horrible. I think people with DID would much prefer a quiet day without any excitement. So this isn't the kind of book that would make you grip the edge of your seat, bouncing up and down. But it's fascinating. Not Oryn in particular but how Vaughn tried to navigate their very fragile relationship in a sea of uncertainty. It was really emotional. I also wouldn't call this a particularly dark book. There isn't even a mention of anything dark, more like a conjecture, speculation of what might have happened to Oryn in the past that resulted in 5 alters to come forward. And at times I teared up, because he himself didn't even remember the reason. He just knew that something bad had happened.... oh, no... there is something that might trigger some people: I seriously feared the ending. Just this one time I did not want a perfect HEA. I can't tell you why, cuz that would be a spoiler too. The length of the book allowed the relationship to develop in a slow but steady pace, and also for us to understand someone who lives with this disorder. The balance was perfect, the romance did not get overshadowed by the struggles of living with a disorder, unlike in the Trials of Fear series, in my opinion. It's a beautiful love story and I liked it lots and lots. :) Sense ressenyes | afegeix-hi una ressenya
Twenty-eight-year-old Oryn Patterson isn't like other people. Being an extremely shy, social introvert is only part of the problem. Oryn has dissociative identity disorder. He may look like a normal man on the outside, but spend five minutes with him, and his daily struggles begin to show. Oryn shares his life and headspace with five distinctively different alters. Reed, a protective, very straight jock. Cohen, a flamboyantly gay nineteen-year-old who is a social butterfly. Cove, a self-destructive terror, whose past haunts him. Theo, an asexual man of little emotion, whose focus is on maintaining order. And Rain, a five-year-old child whose only concern is Batman.Vaughn Sinclair is stuck in a rut. When his job doesn't offer the same thrill it once did, he decides it's time to mix-up his stagnant, boring routine. Little does he know, the man he meets during an impromptu decision to return to college is anything but ordinary.Vaughn's heart defies logic, and he finds himself falling in love with this strange new man. But how can you love someone who isn't always themself? It may not be easy, but Vaughn is determined to try. No s'han trobat descripcions de biblioteca. |
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Sì, perché Love Me Whole parla di un ragazzo con il disturbo dissociativo dell’identità (DDI), che implica (cito Wikipedia, che cita il DSM), “la presenza di due o più identità o stati di personalità separate che a loro volta prendono il controllo del comportamento del soggetto, accompagnato da un'incapacità di evocare i ricordi personali”. Quindi Oryn condivide il proprio corpo con Cohen, Reed, Theo, Rain e Cove, che hanno tutti età diverse, gusti diversi, caratteri diversi, abilità diverse, orientamenti sessuali diversi. Sono in tutto e per tutto persone diverse.
Come se l’è cavata James con il DDI, che, personalmente, credo di non aver mai trovato prima in un romanzo? Direi bene. Innanzi tutto, non mi ha trasmesso l’idea di malattia, con quel retrogusto di paternalismo che troppo spesso accompagna il mondo della salute mentale. Anzi, senza fare spoiler, c’è proprio un momento nel romanzo dove si specifica che Vaughn non deve essere il salvatore di Oryn, ma semplicemente il suo partner.
Poi non nego di averlo trovato interessante perché non sapevo nulla del DDI: immagino che una persona più informata di me potrebbe trovare Love Me Whole didascalico, ma io mi sono bevuta tutte le informazioni con grande interesse. James spiega bene cosa possa significare vivere con il DDI, le difficoltà che si possono incontrare nel costruire una relazione, l’ostracismo di cui si può essere vittime, la difficoltà di avere una diagnosi corretta.
L’unico difetto che mi sento di segnalare è stata la massiccia presenza di salti temporali nell’ultimo quarto del romanzo. Sembra che James a un certo punto volesse arrivare in fretta a tirare le conclusioni della storia e alcune relazioni di Vaughn con alcuni altri di Oryn sono state sacrificate, come quella con Cove o Theo (che è asessuale e per ovvi motivi mi è dispiaciuto non vederlo di più). Per il resto, tenetelo d’occhio se vi va di saperne di più sul DDI. ( )