I was given a free copy of this book for my honest opinion. Surviving an Affair is not just a book about surviving the effects of extra-marital affairs, but a road map to get your marriage back on track. The book offers a structured, detailed, step-wise approach to rebuilding a marriage. The focus is on letting go of what happened, but understanding why so that both the husband and wife can move forward and guard against it happening again. There is hope - the marriage can survive and couples can move forward. This book is a bible for all couples who have felt the incredible pain that an affair brings to a marriage. ( )